Easy Japanese women

Unfortunately it seems that many western men mistakenly believe that Japanese women are easy..easy to hook up with. You can interpret that in any way..It is true that you often find unattractive western white guys walking hand in hand with their beautiful Japanese women. How did that happen? I don’t know. We shouldn’t judge people by the cover because beauty comes from within and this applied to men. It is not all about the look that makes man handsome. But still you see this trend so often in big cities like Tokyo in Japan and start to wonder if Japanese women like white men. This is hard to answer because growing up, many of my Japanese friend wouldn’t date western men. They were not interested despite the exaggerated perceptions of western men being handsome, tall and sweet. They love to tell their lovers “I love you” throughout the day even in public…they are not afraid to show affections in public (Public Displayed of Affection!)..the truth is that these stereotypes are not exactly correct and Japanese people tend to associate western men with these stereotypes because of the popular hollywood movies and TV shows.

After high school, I was doing some baito at the station and this co-worker told me that she shouldn’t have married to her husband..and instead she should have dated western men and then marry one of them. I was 18 years old at that time but I dared to ask her a simple question. “Have you dated a western man before? How do you know that they will treat you better?” Then she says she is convinced that western men are much more sweeter and romantic compared to Japanese men..especially her husband. Once again, she immediately assumed that western men are gentlemen because of the hollywood movies..they do open the doors, usually pay for the first date but these western men are no more sweeter than Japanese men whom I know.

Because of the hollywood, Japanese people and Asian people tend to glamorize western men so this phenomena of asian women dating western men are much more common than you think. And because they tend to be biased toward Western men due to these perceived stereotypes, Japanese women tend to be more accepting of having a western boyfriend. And some Japanese girls especially the ones whom I have met in Southern California are like that.

Someone told me this word: Gaisen Onna (abbreviation of gaijin senmon)-foreigner specialized chick

Gaisen Onna want to date cute western men so they can show off their exotic boyfriend to their friends in Japan and her “gaijin” boyfriend essentially is accessory for her. She enjoys the attention and this type of show-off Japanese girls don’t mind changing from one gaijin boyfriend to another gaijin. So this type of Japanese girls is contributing to the increasing notion that Japanese women are easy. Not all of them are willing to date western men but many of them will fall for not so attractive foreign men if they pursue her persistently. Japanese women tend to be more gullible and mixed with language barriers, I would say that many of Japanese women would fall for western guys if the timing is right for them and western men pursue them with all the things actors do in the movies.. lol

And some Japanese women prefer to have an hybrid cute baby with her gaijin spouse. Japanese people tend to think that every mixed child is good looking. I don’t know where they got this idea but probably because of really cute Japanese/White mixed models in fashion magazines. Overall, Japanese women are open to dating or even getting married to wester men for the above reasons.

But I am not sure if we should conclude that Japanese women are easy to sleep with because we cannot generalize such subject. It’s not that western people see that Japanese women are easy and naive but this perceptions are spread by western guys who aimlessly go to Japan and realize that how attractive Japanese women are and they are usually polite and sweet. and there are actually too many western men move to Japan for a short term stay for this purpose.

The sad part was that most of my Japanese friends in college wouldn’t date western men because they feel that these men look down on Japanese women and somehow think we are easy. And their point was that he could have gotten someone from the U.S., if he didn’t have an issue. They are referring to the fact that not so handsome men easily find dates in Japan.

Summaryv
So in order to wrap this up, I would say that some Japanese women prefer to date western men for various reasons and because Japanese women tend to be sweet, quiet and get easily flattered by their gaijin boyfriend, it is misinterpreted as “easy” and “gullible” but it is not fair to single out Japanese women and make a generalization that Japanese women are easy. Loose women are everywhere.. 🙂 I have been plenty of them in America too.